I don't mean to offend anyone but this dream has really got me perplexed ... it has happened twice, within two weeks of each other, and each time was more real then the last...

well it starts and I am in my dorm room. and I am laying on my bed, i get up and walk to the mirror but its not me, well mot me as a boy, but as a girl. Like it looks like me just extremely feminine and endowed with gender specific parts breasts and a vagina. I, well I guess I masturbate as a female, but realize that this is a lot o trouble... so i run out of the room, magically fully clothed and try to convince my friends that it is really me, but they don't believe me. I plead with them and keep telling them it is me but the refuse and ignore me and I start to cry. Then a guy comes to comfort me but we end up somewhere indoors, where he seduces me into acts of oral and vaginal sex. Both times I have had this dream it felt extremely real I could feel being touched and.... well other things. The thing is it wasn't discomforting or some bad feeling. I felt safe, warm, and well extreme pleasure... if you understand my meaning.

I would really appreciate if someone could help me decipher this message... Thanks a lot.

I think it just is helping to experience and enjoy your more "feminine" side. We all have emotions and mental abilities we tend to ascribe to either belonging to the feminine or male gender, and outwardly show only our physical gender fit emotions and mental abilities. But then at some point those other emotions and mental abilities surprise us and remind us we are not really that "100% male" and "100% female", and we have to unite with all of us... this happens via a union of the female and male, where you may experience gender switch.

The scene indicates a situation in which you are resting very much at ease (laying on a bed) – a situation that can involve a bed issue (sleep or sex). Yet the situation is seen in the context of using a point of view reflecting opinions and beliefs that you are not necessarily the most comfortable with. (the dorm implies sleeping away from home).

By getting up to walk to the mirror, it is indicated that you cannot remain so at ease and you may be making some progress by going to check upon your own self image. Your male image having been replaced by a female one would indicate that you are using and living from an overly emotional perspective.       [Do you see yourself becoming too effeminate?]

When using an overly emotional perspective you become dissatisfied with personally satisfying your urge for sexual pleasure. (masturbate as a female) When leaving this type of situation behind (run out of the room) you find that you have magically – using some trickery or fantasy – addressed or taken into account your feelings on this issue.

There is an aspect of yourself from which you would normally obtain emotional support or backing (my friends) but in this case, when leaving behind the idea of personal self satisfying sexual behaviour, this support is not forthcoming. The aspect of yourself reflecting ideas which work in your favour cannot acknowledge this overly emotional being as representing the real you that you were designed to be. (they don’t believe me) There is no way to convince yourself that this is the real you. From an overly emotional perspective you may find this sad. (I start to cry)

The guy represents an idea you have which reflects very poor thinking. Using this idea and poor thinking you appear to have been taken in – fooled in some way. (we end up somewhere indoors) Your mind is seducing you – leading you astray when it comes to accepting sex with a male partner.  While the sexual experience was very pleasurable in the dream it was also thus pleasurable from an overly emotional perspective. As a woman you enjoyed this …. BUT you are supposed to be a male! Enjoying this as a female also means you have put aside the logical thinking which is your birthright.

@ElizVanZee

No I do not believe myself to be overly feminine, in fact more like emotionless, I have no time for them with all all my school.

And I am sorry but could you possibly explain the last three sections in greater detail?


Thanks to you both for your time.

I've often dreamed of being female but usually not anything that explicit. In my case I believe it is simply my desire to be female manifested through my dreams.