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sweetsunray
Age: 38 Zodiac: 
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Posted: Thu Jan 14, 2010 1:09 am |
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It is common for pregnant women to have anxiety dreams about their pregnancy. They even tend to differ in anxieties depending on the stage: during the first trimester for example tiny creatures, fuzzy animals (cuddly), flowers and fruit (growing things) and water (emotional) are common. In the second trimester anxieties are about being a good mother (if first child), complications with the birth, and carrying a non-human baby as well. In the third trimester the mothers of the pregnant woman are often present.
You are in your second trimester, so both your anxieties of complications with the pregnancy and the birth, damage to the baby in your waking life as well as your dreaming life are common and normal.
However, the dream already involves something else of your waking life. It seems to me that your anxiety over the baby took over in your dream and clouded the other message. Being cut in dreams suggests you feel undermined, or let down, or at least fear for this. It also might reflect issues you may be having about your feminine sexuality.
Now if I connect that with the ex-bf as well as the stage in your life of being pregnant in the second trimester and your body and hormones changing more dramatically than before, then this is imo what this dream was about:
the changes of your body because of your pregnancy physically and hormonally has triggered not only anxiety about the baby, but also changes in your assessment of your feminine sexuality, in a way that you feel you're becoming insecure about it, and this insecurity has triggered some unresolved issues about your ex-bf and how much he used to undermine you, probably also on the sexual level.
When we enter a new stage in our life that will make a definite break with the past it's common that old leftover issues that have been hiding in the closet and you thought were long past resurface to get resolved in the dreams. With you it seems the pregnancy, but starting a new relationship with a new man even years after a break-up will probably at least trigger one dream about the ex-relationship.
Congratulations and I wish you all the best with your pregnancy and coming baby.
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