I hadn't even thought to analyze the dream next to my reading.  I haven't figured out what these paths are exactly....although I think I may know.  Which right now all I can think of is, do i let things slowly develop or do i just approach it head on and see if my gut feeling is right.  I still have thinking to do I just don't want to over analyze it.

I think I know the feeling.  When I first met my future wife and her daughter I was awestruck.  It was instant love really.  It took me days to leave them again, and I left because I needed to get my head around what was happening.  I needed a break to think straight.  My intuition was saying yes yes but my head wasn't sure.  Its a big change and commitment going from single no responsibilities student to responsible Daddy overnight...  I needed that time to make the conscious decision to do it.  But it only took me about an hour before I went back haahaha

I think it is important for the heart and the head to be working together.  If either one is unsure about something, its right to be cautious.  Whats important is to make the decision and follow it up.

Good luck.
Rook