**The dream before this one below was about Eli Roth (the dude is coming through my dreams, ya'll..... and i like it, lol!) and I want to have your input about both, ok?**

*I'm in this kitchen area of a house/ apartment and I'm trying to make hot chocolate... I have the water boiling and the chocolate ready, but I want to find marshmallows and I can't.... so there is all these girls/women around just talking and whining about men..... that they don't do this in the bedroom.... they aren't rich enough.... and then they start talking about hooking-up with rich men only and what you have to do in order to "catch one of them", so to speak...

So after listening to this tirade, I go back into the kitchen and I see Eli (I know.... he's popular!lol) looking in the cupboard for a mug... I guess he was going to make himself some tea.... and we both say hi.... and then I said to him..." Is that the only way to get a guy... to be all extra-sexual and all over you? And he looked at me and said.." No, you really should just be normal and just talk.. then he grins and walks out of the kitchen.

That's the end of dream number one!




So this morning (because I didn't fall asleep until around 12:54 AM..) I dreamed I was at a film festival with a puppy. I was in line with some of the cast outside lining up so that we could go in to be seated. And I had a red-sable colored pitbull puppy with me.

Now of course, animals are not allowed into movie theatre, but this one was! So she (cause for some reason I knew she was a girl) and I made our way into the theatre for the premiere. Before that though, I took her into the bathroom to make sure she had water and was calm.

So.... then while we are watching the movie, she curls up on my lap. And falls asleep curled up! She was KNOCKED OUT! The few people around us would turn around and go AWWWWWW...... she was covering my whole lap...


And then I see Eli trying to scan the crowd and I wave him over... apparently the puppy is his! And he goes.... aw.... she doesn't sleep like that often, she loves you... And i just felt so warm, ya know? So he mentioned when the movie was over that we were going to chill at his place and then I woke up!

Hi Marlena

Eli seems to feature in your dreams frequently.  What does he represent?  I see three possibilities.

First the ideal male perhaps?  The sort of qualities you are looking for in your partner.

Second, inner masculine aspects of yourself.

Third possibility is wish fulfillment if you have a crush on Eli, your dreams could be compensating for not chilling at his place in real life.

My interpretation of the first dream, how I see it:

The women could be a reflection of the information you are getting from outside of yourself as to how to get the right man.  Eli could be a representation here of the inner masculine self representing rational thought (apparently rational thought is a masculine trait) and also perhaps your attempts at identifying with men.  I think he has some sage advice.

Speaking as a man, sure sexy is a good hook for random men off the street but it is a weak fishing line.  If you want a relationship / marriage that will stand the test of time there has to be more than that.  Just like you have the requirement of money, but I am sure you won't take just any man with money, so too with men and being sexy.  At least from my point of view.

The second dream would need to consider some more.

I do think HE is handsome... quite talented and would I like to chill at his place in real life.... yeah... but again... only in my dreams, lol.

Hmmm... I really want to know about the second dream cause it makes some and no sense to me...

Hi Marlena,

I am sorry I am just seeing this. He is a soul mate about to enter your life in a more integral way as we discussed in previous convo.

The dream is showing your need for spiritual and loving nourishment. Both of these can be had from Eli, and the connection you both share is being confirmed in the dream. It is however also warning you not to be intimidated, or get sidetracked or lured into the gossippy and superficial behaviour of the other women in his social and career circle in developing on this connection in your waking life. Beeing yourself will be enough.

The female puppy represents an idea/concept/situation in it's baby stage and your feminine self. This puppy being at the film festival represents your acting career and your connection to Eli and both of you guys connection to the acting world and the stage of your careers. You taking the puppy to the bathroom preparing it, giving it water, making sure it was calm, shows a parallel to how you will work hard on nurturing self and career growth. You will work hard on taking care of yourself and your career and do what it takes to ensure that it grows and you stay on track towards your goals, while leaning heavily on your own strength and self motivation along the way.  It's telling you to stay focused on your goals don't fall asleep on them or be distracted or sidetracked by the temptations of fame (all the ppl oohing and aahing over the sleeping puppy) or your feelings for Eli. The fact that the puppy belongs to him and how you nurture and treat this puppy means you will pay a lot of attention and devotion to him. It also suggests that there may be a point where you may have to carry both yourself and him - I am not sure if this will be financially, career wise, or emotionally. Perhaps he will bring baggage from a past relationship to his relationship with you. It may be some combination of of these things. The fact that puppy is his also speaks to the fact that his career is in baby stage too as advanced as he may already be. It speaks to his perception of his own career, being ambitious and wanting more. Your relation to all of this is already explained. Just becareful not to forget yourself in this process. You have needs and goals too. The lesson will be to find the balance.

There is a connection and there are some life lessons meant to be learned from him, he and these will come to you without little effort on your part and you must take on these lessons with much gusto particularly what he can contribute to the growth of your acting career as a mentor or role model, but at the same time balance that with not making your devotion to him distract you from your goals.

You are a very loving and possitive person we see that in how you took care of your family, you must learn to balance that out with loving and nurtturing yourself while still doing so for others.  Good luck!  

I seriously just got tears in my eyes right now.... for real.... yep, its just a matter of timing.

Thank you sweetheart! I really love your spirit!!!