My mother called me yesterday and told me she had a vision.
This happens from time to time.
She was very upset and told me the following:

There was a girl in a room, and there was a blanket over her head.
Two men that seemed to know one another but we're not friends took this girl and moved her from chair to chair in a dark room.
The girl seemed drugged, or sedated.  She was not aware of what was going on.
They continued to struggle moving her around and at the end of it she was left on a table alone.
She did not see any rape or violence, yet felt very strongly the girl was hurt.
She is 100% sure the girl was me, although she could not see my face and did not recognize the male figures.

What my mother does not know...
The man I am dateing, was once very good friends with my x.
Currently my x is asking me to take him back and the man I am dateing obviousley does not want that, nor do I..
They are angry with one another, for obvious reasons.

What frightens me in her vision is the final portion as well as the actions of these men.
I can see that it would be them.. They did know one another very well, and although it's been some time since they spoke, they still know very much about one another.

She is sure that this was a vision, not a dream.
These visions take place in the early morning just before she wakes up.
She says that she tries to wake up and tries not to see, but is forced to view it all and feels she is awake.

Any thoughts on this ?
I joined the forum today looking for symbolism online and wondered if anyone might have any input or thoughts of what she was really viewing..

Thank you.

Ok, if your mom is sure the girl is you and sure she saw a symbolical vision of something going on in your life, then it must be so, and I'm very sure the two men (the ex and present man you're dating) is spot on the mark by you.

First there is a blanket over your head. To wrap someone in a blanket in a dream symbolizes the desire to take care of you: either a desire from your mom to take care of you, or by one or both men. However, the blanket makes you faceless, thereby indicating a desire to take care of you without knowing or recognizing who you are, and in how much you even need that type of care.

Next the two men are moving her from chair to chair. To sit down means "taking time to think things over". With the men putting you on the chair that means, they both want you to contemplate them to think hard and make your choice, as well as want you to be open to their advice. However, it also indicates that your feelings or ideas are being dismissed or cast to the side by both of them. Once again, we see lots of desires and demands made by both of them on you, but without actual regard for you.

The girl is not aware because she chooses not to be aware. Being sedated or drugged, using drugs is a way to avoid certain issues, so you don't feel any pain. So, you being sedated implies that a part of you knows what is going on, but you're avoiding the issue, and the hurtful issue for you is not what they both want from you, but that they want it without really considering you. Secondly, it might indicate how you are using this unhealthy attention and fight between them to sedate yourself into believing how much they care for you, how much they desire you... but drugs make for hallucinations, things that aren't there.

Apparently these two men keep at it, almost like a competition, with you ending up alone on the table. Lying on a table in a dream indicates you being worn out and needing relaxation. It is a forewarning how at the end of the competition between the two, you will end up wrung out, tired, possibly sick of it all and how it is detrimental for your health and well being, and by yourself.

Conclusion, your mother received a warning that these lovers are struggling for your attention and the right to take care of you, not because they love you, but because of something between them. You are a means to an end in this process, but not the true goal. You know this in a way and to accept it is truly hurtful, which is why you're trying to avoid to see the situation in that light. But by doing that you give them the right to toss and drag you to wherever they want you to be as if you are just a puppet, and in the end you will hurt and tire from it anyway, and may well end up alone. Perhaps it is time to let these two men sort things out between themselves first and hae them deal with their issues without involving you at all, and take your health, wellbeing and love life in your own hands, instead of being the ball to toss and hurl between them.

If at least one of them has genuine respect, love and caring for you, he or they will respect your decision to distance yourself from them and this situation, take care of it between themselves once and for all without involving you any longer, and only then return to court you once more. If they don't, then neither of them is the right guy to be with.

I think  wanna give my 2 cents here too... Just from my common sense perspective (rather than actually looking at symbol, because I totally agree with sweetsunray on pretty much all of this) and maybe a bit of psychic influence.
My first impression was that while you are hoping your mom just had a dream, you are very well aware that it was a surge of knowledge, transmitted in a vision. Since your guarding forces weren't able to reach you because those two guys leave you with a blanket over your head, only seeing their attention for you, but not their real intentions, your mother, the one person that you were physically and spiritually attached to for 9 months and who is obviously clear-voyant was sent a message of warning for you. She received it and took action. It was of such urgency because you need to take action before something happens that leaves you hurt stranded and alone. There are 2 kinds of alone, "left alone" without any means to take care of yourself, and "solitude", a choice to be alone to re-energize, build up strength, meditate on your own abilities and then come back as a warrior who does not need anyone, but stands powerfully and independently, able to take on any challenge.
You haven't yet seen or reached all of your potential, but you will if you focus on finding a way to be self sufficient and love yourself enough to a point where guys don't matter. If you put yourself in a position where you depend on being taken care of, you also put yourself in the position of becoming a defenseless victim when things get rough...
I suggest just like Sweetsunray that you work on yourself, hard, and leave both of those guys in the dust for a while. If one of them loves you enough to overcome the insecurities that makes it necessary for them to challenge each other for the right to take care of you and "own" you (they are acting as if you are a possession that can just be tossed around at their will, even if you are broken at the end, they feel better about themselves for having claimed you as the prize of warring with each other) THEN it will be the right time to give them a chance. Otherwise, you are more important. The right one will come along eventually. Keep in mind that we are not just here to just live a life, however great or miserable. We are here to conquer ourselves and learn and evolve, if possible while helping others o the same, not to conquer them or own them...

Ok I just had to get this out =)

I did not stipulate this before, but while I'm a down to earth woman with a scientific mind, I do accept the existence of precognitive and forewarning symbolic visions while dreaming: I've had two myself concerning my own love life, and scientific tests have been done regarding this in scientific peer reviewed articles by dream and sleep scientists. One of the things about precognitive dreams is that the person who has them knows they are predictive and acute forewarning the moment they wake up with a surety they often canot explain themselves. Most often clairvoyant and forewarning dreams are dreamt by people who have a special heart connection with the person the warning's about. Out of the 3 people in your life, your ex, the present lover and your mom, she is the one who truly cares for you, cares so much about you that she is able to dream a forewarning for you to change your own lifecourse. And she is sure of the precognition being a precognition as she was waking up and dreaming it. The most convinving part of it is that she dreamt the forewarning in a symbolic language. Whether dreams are forewarnings or not, they always use symbolic language. So, yeah, your mother saw a real possible future evolution of the present situation, and the only one who can divert it is you yourself.

=) Sweetsunray, I think the reason why I just needed to comment, was that I myself had a few premonitions that came to me in dreams... I am 110% sure that her mom has spiritual guidance that leads her to help her daughter!! And yes, if the mom KNOWS it's a premonition - it is!

And Diskonize, one more thing... I know you can do very well for yourself, if you just focus. You definitely have the makeup for becoming an even better person than you already are, even a leader. Have courage, push insecurities aside. Courage, remember, is not the absence of fear, it's going ahead despite fear, envisioning a successful outcome. You will rise from this experience like a phoenix from the ashes!
Do not under any circumstances give in to anyone of those guys right now. It spells disaster.

Hugs and blessings,
Petra