Interesting, maybe you are meant to be but not quite now. I say make it happen on its own, because trust me if it is meant to happen it will. And if it doesnt happen in this lifetime it will be another. Don't stop living before it does though. Good luck with that.
PS. another angle I considered was that bedroom signifies sexual intimacy, maybe it is saying by fulfilling your sexual desire for her you will be released of the pressure you are feeling now. This means that by having sex with her you will get closure, or maybe you think you are in love with her but probably the chemistry is just on a purely sexual plane, and if you were to have sex with her it would be just the closure you need to be freed to move on. Now, I am not saying this to tell you to go and have sex with her, but maybe if you reason it out and it turns out to really just be sex you want from her, maybe this would be an unexpected relief to you and it wouldn't be worth it to ruin an engagement over just sex.