In the dream I am given a small flute and I blew through it to play, suddenly I am shown a great gate that opened upwards, I enter the hallway and in the distance I see Lord Shiva and Parvati's statues on the wall.  I realise I am in a temple and look down at my feet.  As I was wearing slippers, I take them off and as I do this the gate behind begins to come down.  I thought I did something wrong so run towards the closing gate, but Lord Shiva appears in person in front of me and stop me leaving.  He showed me that at the other side were demons waiting to attack me.
He brings me and makes me sit next to my brother as we celebrate a religious festival and then gives me a gift with numbers written on it and tells me that the gift for my brother I should not take.  So I read the numbers written for my brother as

[b]4 8[/b][size=18][/size]

and for me as

[b] 5 6[/b]

my brother was born on 4th Nov 1982 ([b]4[/b]+11+1+9+82=35=3+5=[b]8[/b])

but I am born on 6th Feb 1979 ([b]6[/b]+2+1+9+7+9=34=3+4=[b]7[/b])

if I was born on the 5th I would be 5 and 6.

I wake up wondering why 5 and 6, is the way I behave in life made me this numbers?

you may want to also post this in the numerology section. Is it possible you were born a day early? Do you know the circumstances of your birth?

My daughter would have been born July 27th but I was induced on the 26th for my own safety (I was already 6 days past my due date). I don't know if that makes a difference for her at all as far as her life-path but it's worth you looking into also.

good luck