This morning i had a dream that my bf was finally coming over and his friend is like "yeah! we got plans for you guys! I wanna show you where your gonna meet!" so he shows me this huge calender thing and it has a picture of a restaurant and my house, and then his friend says "well its getting closer to the time to meet him, check the date to see when" when i try to do that the dream changes  i am actually fairly pissed off by that, it's like my dreams are trying to torture me


what does the dream mean?

anybody?

Please remember that responses are not in any way guaranteed on this forum, and that knowing that the people who generously volunteer their time and energies in order to help you may live in a completely different time zone and have a life of their own to live beyond these MB forums, I feel it is unreasonable of you to expect a reply within the first 12 hours after posting your dream here.

Dreams are indeed said to be the royal road to learning about the contents of our own unconscious mind and therefore are often of great interest to us, but surely if not every dream of yours gets interpreted, it would not be the end of your world.

Personally I currently feel I have nothing of value to add myself at this point in time, towards helping you to interpret the most likely meaning(s) of this particular dream.

Possibly someone else other than myself might be drawn to helping you this time, if you are willing to be patient long enough?

No guarantees are given!

Sorry,

eye_of_tiger

Babygirl

I have considered this dream on my trip home from work.  Is the boyfriend real or is the boyfriend a fictional dream character?  I ask because it sounds like the dream is spelling out your emotional attitude to your romantic situation, and the interpretation depends on this.

In the first instance the boyfriend is 'finally' coming over.  If he is real, has he been hesitant to come to your home and meet your family?  And is this making you angry because you 'can not see the date' that this will happen, but it is something you want to happen because you 'have plans for him', and this is like the next step?  If this is the case then my advice would be to think about how you react to him not coming over.  If you get angry with him and it starts a fight, perhaps you should consider another path.  Remember, it is not easy for a man to meet his future father-in-law, it is a nerve-wracking experience (although most often it doesn't turn out as bad as he imagines).  Rather than creating a big internal conflict for the man by starting a fight over it, be understanding, support him, perhaps tell him some funny stories about your father (not when he has an authoritarian role but rather is a nice friendly person) and try to plan with his shared input, into a date for this event to take place.

If the boyfriend is fictional, are you single?  If so are you looking for a partner?  Do you have plans for your life which aren't being met because you aren't in a relationship at the moment?  This could lead to frustration and anger if you are looking but can't see even any potential (I know from experience).

Let me know the situation and I may be able to share more insight.

Cheers,
Rook

no bf is real, i dont think meeting my family has anything to do with it, my house is not exactly clean enough(no trash is not piled to the ceiling or anything) but its not exactly  people visiting environment yet. plus he has a daughter from a previous relationship and i think he wants me to keep my house clean and stuff, does it piss me off yes it does and i would like to take the next step with him