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Vance_Pants
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 3:21 am |
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Well, it may sound like some normal types of dreams to you...but usually for me, my dreams don't connect directly to people I know, just figuritives for them (ie: fictional characters that we like to relate to eachother). But what really seems strange about these dreams, is the timeing in which they chose to show up.
I should first explain my cuurent reality situation. You see, for a long time now, I've had (for lack of a better word) a 'crush' on my best friend Jordan. Recently some of my other friends have been getting impacient with me, so they were pressuring me and pressuring me to confess untill I finally managed to tell him how I felt. Well, he said he didn't know quite what to think, so we went on with our usual friendship for a while.
The first dream happened the night after my birthday. In it, Jordan and I were hanging out as usual, playing video games and joking around. Somehow, we went to the subject of homework for a short bit, pertaing to English (which is strange considering JUST TODAY, I was helping him with that subject). I looked at the clock for a moment, but there was a shadow reaching over it, so I couldn't read it. I don't know how, but we somehow ended up in my grandmother's room. Next thing I heard, Jordan was talking again, this time saying something about my confession (I can't recall exactly what he said). Then he kissed me. I think this first kiss was suppsed to be a pitty kiss, but after the one-moment-kiss was broken, he had a strange look...like he had just had a sudden epiphany, and he said "let's try that again." We kissed again, this time held more sencierly. Then I fainted in the dream (that's not meaning much, I have dizzyness issues all the time).
The second one was much simpler, It was just me and Jordan holding hands, intertwined fingers, getting off the bus at my stop. Apearently he found it fitting to point out a butterfly then. As I said, boringly simple.
The third dream happened the night after I managed to ask him out (he still didn't know what to think). It included a bit of the typical symbolism. We've often compared Jordand to Naruto (you know, from the anime) and me to Hinata (same anime). Well, Hinata has a father who is not only overprotective, but harsh, stern and strict, and a bit uncaring at times. Most of all, he extreamly disaproves of Naruto. In this dream We were still our direct selfs, and we were also with our other friend Matt. While we were all talking, someone came in with a box adressed to Jordan, signed from Hiashi (name of Hinata's father). I knew that was bad. I tryed to explain that there might have been something bad in there, but curiosity was getting the better of him. He went into another room to open it, so I chased after him, and ended up lost in a maze of hallways, never recalling them in my house before. The dream went on and on with me trying to find Jordan, thinking 'The box is bad. He might be in danger!'
That last one worried me the most.
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MumtazG38
Age: 19 Zodiac: 
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Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 11:56 pm |
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Well, sweety......all I can really tell you is that dreams can be.....just dreams at times. Your mind working out issues while you sleep. The fact that your dreams changed from fictional characters representing real people to the actual "real" people appearing and playing their own roles is merely a sort of dream-theme change that's all. It happens to most of us when we are changing as people. When I was 13-17 I would have dreams always pertaining to wanting to fly but being unable to do it well enough, being bound by gravity, or just not being able to fly high enough. Now when I say always, I DO mean always......there wasn't one dream in that period where I hadn't attempted to fly...and had been unsuccessful. Then, a few days after I turned 18....I got an offer to start my own boutique(fashion) and model my own clothes.......I took the offer finally feeling independent of my father and his "I'm always going to be the boss of you attitude".....and that night I dreamt several different dreams........in which I could fly through the skies like only god knows it. I even managed to have one last dream in which I was completely lucid (conscious/awake) and had complete control. I decided to levitate just a bit to see how it would be....then flew to the heavens to see if I could talk to god....or at least an angel.....even if it were just a dream, I'd be happy with whatever I got. I flew to heaven.....saw no gates.....saw nothing but beautiful rivers and endless valleys.....and details I cannot even explain. When I woke up from this dream.....I could still smell that "heaven" smell.....it was sweet, almost floral....mixed with....how it smells when it rains when it's really sunny out. The smell was coming from my skin....everyone noticed it and so many guys went absolutely nuts over it.
Ever since then....I rarely dream about flying....and when I do, I fly. Also, now my dreams are more based in reality then they used to be. I can go for days or even months thinking something happened only to figure out it was only a dream. Now I just dream about trying to move things with my mind, psychokinesis. Go figure eh?
So what I mean to explain here is.......dreams are dreams hun, and they will always keep changing the way they are as you are growing into a more different person. The more you change, the more the potential is that your dreams will become a bit different too. The more you fear or think about what Jorden thinks or says about your feelings.....the more your dreams will consist of the exact same things. Dreams are how we solve issues using our subconscious/soul......let those issues be dreamed of....it's all natural.
Hope I helped....if not, just stick around a bit longer and I'm sure someone else will be along soon to help you  .
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