I dreamt that I was in my hall talking to my son who had had his left foot amputated just above the ankle and was wearing a prosthetic foot and leaning on a pair of crutches.  The crutches appeared faded compaired to the rest of the dream as if behind a veil

Hallo, Wish!

Have you tried using the method I usually follow, asking and answering questions about the different aspects of the dream? Since this fragment is quite short, it should be quite easy to do. Just try to write down your own definitions and then read them (only the answers, not the questions), and see how they could apply to your present situation. Ready to have a go?

Describe your son, the one who appeared in the dream, if you have more than one. How did you feel while talking to him in the dream?

Describe the hall. What do you use it for? How do you feel in it both in the dream and in waking life? what could it stand for?

What is a foot? Why would your son lose one? why do you think it was the left one? how did he take it? how did you feel about it? Describe the prothesis: how it looked, its uses, how it made you feel to see it.

What are crutches? when do you feel they are needed? Since they seem faded, are they really needed or not? what could be acting as a crutch for your son? does he want it? would you want him to use it? how do you feel about all this?

I remind you that you do not have to post all your answers here, specially if you find yourself touching on personal issues. This exercise is only so that you can see how most answers are inside you already.

Best of luck, Wish!  

well what I see is that he is quite happy and accepting of the disability that he has, so much so that he doesnt see it as a disability. It's me that is more concerned with it.  He is up for geting on with his life nothing changes he is still able to do what he wants...he doesn't lean on his crutches

as to the hall it's not important just like the crutches they happen to be there..

It seem to me to be about taking what you have and being thankful (celebrate) for what you have and looking forward to the unknown, knowing that no matter what befalls you take it in your stride and enjoy every moment

Well done! Now, how do you feel about your dream? Has anything changed now that you know more about it? Did you enjoy working on the dream?

strange....it didn't feel like work...thoughts just came...the more I think about it the more I realise it's me that I am looking at....as I should be, as I was....living the moment accepting and being thankful for every experience that happens for it is teaching me lessons that I can pass on to others