Well I am new here, and I have been to a site like this for dream interpretation, and I do understand what kind of dreams need to be discribed. But I have to give a little bit of background on me and my boyfriend before i explain my dream.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. And we do love eachother very much I can see it in him everytime I am with him. he makes me smile and laugh in ways I have never done before. Now since Valentine's Day is comming up, I plan on getting him a ring, an inscribed one in which says ill love u forever baby since that is what we always say to eachother.

And even tho we havent been together THAT long it's still a long time, but we have been through a lot of things together...We jus lost a baby the day after christmas. Which i still regret becuz my mother made me do something I did not want too. And he wasnt supposed to be able too have kids but it happened which made me think we are meant to be.

He refuses to tell me my present but I havent told him his either, but he gives me the most clueless hints its so hard to even imagine what hes doing..So the things he said made my mind think...He's giving me a ring..maybe..

My Dream..

Well I am usually the type who remembers my dreams very well, and they feel very real. Exspecially this one...

It started off at my grams house in the summer time or something maybe not even in the summer time. (He hasnt been to my grams yet, but the house was really my grams) And I didn't know he was there until I seen him my mom and one of my friends I do not know who were sittin on the steps exactly were they are in my grams house. And all I remember him really saying is " Is she lying to me about anything?" N I just said Thanks for having trust in me so I ran to the outside in the back where my grams pool is, and hid under the deck for some unknown reason. But he came too look for me and said "Baby I do trust you, I jus wanted to make sure there was nothing bein hidden before I give you ur suprise" So I jus looked at him and gave him a kiss, and left with him and then all the sudden we ended up somewhere else but he wasnt there. I was at a house that was having a big party (which me and my boyfriend love to party) and he called me askin me if a couple of his friends could come. And I said yeah and he finally got there but it was just him, and he had alot of roses a bottle of grey goose vodka, and after that I really dont remember because I woke up. So I dont know if that was saying anything.

But I jus thought it maybe that was tryng to tell me he was getting me a ring

One of his hints where "It's early.." I really can't think of anything else it could be with that hint since, what else could be early..Unless he means I will be getting my present early but Idk.

Help is very appriciated

It is perfectly natural after you have gone through so much with one another in a relatively short period of time and because you are already getting him a ring for Valentine's day that you would be hoping that he would give you the identical gift in return. A ring is regarded as symbolising a lasting commitment made to that person and their relationship with each other, and it is as though you are wanting for him to give you your own ring to formally show others that he feels just as strongly about you, as you obviously do about him.

To be perfectly honest with you, while the dream may be suggesting amongst many other things that you are to be given this ring, it could also potentially be a combination of wishful thinking on your part, plus other important personal symbolism which may be unique to your own dreaming mind. You referred to something which your mother made you do against your own better judgement which I feel was directly related to you losing your baby. This is therefore without doubt a very sensitive and emotionally charged subject to discuss on a public forum such as this one, and because the dream itself is so complex in the symbolism it uses, I feel that the possibility of you getting a ring is only one of many possible layers of interpretation.

It is not so much the physical ring which is of greatest importance here (although it would be a nice touch when you give him his), but what it means to you and your relationship with your boyfriend over the longer term. Some women need to to be constantly assured that they are deeply loved no matter whatever might happen, and the traditional way of showing this is to give a ring.

Having so recently lost your baby your own need for this assurance that you are effectively the only woman in your boyfriend's world, would surely be much greater than at any other time in your life. This dream could be one way of offering you such an assurance, or confirming his lasting love for you.

Hoping this helps, even if it does not attempt to explain the possible meaning of every individual dream symbol in minute detail,

eye_of_tiger

Yes it does infact help me. Because I do understand what you are saying when you say i need to be assured alot of him truly loving me. Because I have been through soo many messed up relationships in my life its indiscribable. And I do trust my boyfriend wit every little milligram in my body and beyond that. But I think part of me is still havin that really bad fear of him hurting me too but I know he trully loves me. His friends will say it which is rare in my situation. His friends say we will never break up and that me and him are meant to be and vise versa with my friends. I think u are right maybe it was jus my dream showing me he really does love me. If there is anymore advice u can give me id greatly appriciate it

Thank you very much

You are very welcome for the friendly advice I have already given you.



One thing I wanted to add to my existing comments is that trust needs to be earned. While I do understand that you trust your boyfriend "with every milligram of your body", do not expect that he will never unintentionally let you down or hurt your feelings, as being as human as the rest of us are, he is by his very nature imperfect.  

In other words, do not worship him as if you had placed him above yourself on a pedestal, as even the most trustworthy human can sometimes make mistakes. Take whatever positive lessons you each can from your mistakes, then be willing to move on.

Also learn to place more trust in a person's actions rather than what they tell you (their words). Sometimes these are very different from one another, which can cause much misunderstanding and confusion between two people who would otherwise be very compatible with one another, and enjoy a relatively happy and long term relationship.

Be kinder to yourselves,

eye_of_tiger

Thank you very much for your help. It does mean alot too me. One thing though I do not put him above myself, but I do really love him. I do understand that even the one person u can trust the most can hurt u. Ive found that out in the past. =]