| Bushidogrl wrote: |
Ok, so I had no luck so far on any suggestions on my 1st post maybe this one will be easier..lol.
I have frequent dreams every now & then (about 1 every other week) about my boyfriend cheating on me with a girl that he knew before me. He was never active with her & all they did (so he says) is kiss 1 time that they met. This girl haunts me & I'm not sure why, but I do have dreams about him being with her & when I wake up the dream seems so real that I am very upset. Any help here? Some people say that it's all my subconscious but I would like to stop having these dreams. I do talk with him about them & he comforts me & reassures me, but still. Is there a reason I keep having these? Is someone trying to tell me something? It's driving me nutz!!! I'm a worrier & of course my mind runs with it. Please help! Thank you!  |
We have many kinds of dreams. Sometimes we work through things in the astral plane that we are having difficulty in our everyday life. In your case, you are very much in love but you don't trust him completely, nor this girl. The very thing you fear is manifested full bloom in the astral plane. These kinds of dreams will persist, until you are sick and tired of entertaining the possibility that he is cheating on you. You have reached that stage and now the question is, how can you stop these awful dreams? You might begin by over riding the existing program of negativity with positive thoughts of your lover. When thoughts of him cheating on you appear, don't panic and try to shove them under the rug. Acknowledge, these thought patterns and gently override these with the positive images you had of him when you first said to yourself this is the one. Be gentle with yourself! At first it will be a little tricky and hard to keep up but if you practice it will become automatic and every time these negative thoughts appear you will be amazed how your brain will automatically replace those images with the positive images you want. You have cold hands.