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Posts: 1 · Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 4:14 pm

Lately I've been dreaming of a friend, we'll call him, Bob. Bob and I were not romantically linked. I look at Bob as a manly man and someone who is a protector.

I just awoke from another dream about us....

I was on an RV or tour bus, something like that and he and my husband were there. Bob and I were sitting close and he had his arm around my shoulder. He said, out loud, "you're so beautiful" and I put my hand over his mouth and said my husband was there. Well, my husband didn't do anything(I was thinking in my dream 'why isn't he yelling at Bob?') and Bob kept saying things that should have pissed my husband off. My husband gets up and says in an upset voice "my throat is dry" and walked out. I sat there for a moment letting Bob hold me and then I got up and kissed Bob in a more than a friend way, said I'd call him, and that I love him. He said "anytime, I love you too baby". I walked to our car where my husband was, Bob had passed by me with some friends; I asked him if some guy was still hanging around with him and he said that I'd already asked him that. At that point in the dream, in my head I was thinking, "he actually remembered that"....(and I did ask him, in my other dream about him)
When I got in the car my husband started yelling at me like I'd never heard him yell before and asked how I could talk to Bob when he disrespects me like that. Then I woke up in a sweat and my heart was pounding.

In all the dreams I've had about Bob it was never sexual, I always feel safe, and of course guilty because I am married. I rarely talk to Bob except for when he's here on business since we've both got different lives now.

These are so real they are, even the nice innocent ones, are disturbing.

Any ideas about what this means?

Posts: 4130 · Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 1:08 am

Your dream seems to have upset you not so much because you were dreaming romantically about Bob who is in real life only a friend, but more so because your husband was not visibly perturbed by what Bob was saying and doing. You are worrying about the possible reasons why your husband is not defending his own rights to punch Bob squarely on the nose, and to convince him not to act in such an inappropriate manner towards his own wife.

This dream could possibly be interpreted to mean that you similarly feel that your real husband often does not show that he loves you enough by making it clear to other men that when it comes to you he is proud to have you as his wife, and they should therefore be extremely careful as to what they do or say, if they want to stay healthy and in one piece.

Taken to one extreme this can become a case of jealousy and over possessiveness (as if you are his sole property), but this type of dream may suggest the opposite is true - that you do not feel that he fully appreciates what a lucky man he is to be loved by someone as wonderful as you are?

God Bless,

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