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Posts: 8 · Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 1:16 am

I've recently had an involvement with a man a work. We pretty much ended it a few months ago, but remained friends. Then his wife found out we'd been messing around (sorry, don't mean to offend anyone. it's one of those connections that just happen before you realize it), and naturally told him he couldn't talk to me at all. We've hardly spoken, since. A few nights ago, I was in the middle of a dream. This dream had nothing at all to do with anything or anyone at work. And then my friend's voice broke through, completely interrupted my dream. I heard it in my right ear, as if he were with me. His voice was low, and sincere. "You're beautiful," he said to me. It was so real, I was startled awake. My heart was pounding. And I thought, "What was THAT?"

I'm wondering if, after all this time that we've hardly spoken to one another, he was reaching out to me. What are your views? Has a visitation like this ever happened to anyone?

Posts: 4130 · Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 1:30 am

Regardless of him already being married to someone else, there is no doubt that there is still a strong feeling of connection between you.

My impressions are that you were either lovers or a married couple in a previous incarnation, and that the loving voice you "heard" in your right ear was a past life memory, rather than it being an actual visitation or communication from him in his current life role as some other woman's husband.

It could also be explained away by the sceptics as a case of you hearing what you most wish to be told - that he thinks you are a beautiful person (which goes far beyond you being beautiful on the surface), even though you will I feel never be married to him during this one. If his infidelity to his wife does eventually end his marriage, I do not sense that your relationship with him would subsequently take up from where you left off. I simply do not feel that it would work, as both of you would be so haunted by your feelings of guilt.

Many happily and otherwise married men and women have a deep spiritual connection with someone other than their chosen partner. It is what they choose to do about it (if anything), and whether or not there is a loving and caring intention behind it, that largely determines whether their relationship will tend to attract either good or bad karma.

If living relatively happily with someone you feel a deep sense of connection with necessarily means that you would intentionally (I am certainly not accusing you of doing such a terrible thing as this) hurt another person, so that you could have whom you most wished for, I would personally not like to be in that person's shoes when the resulting karma is eventually handed out.

Hoping that you will equally not be offended by what I have written above in the true spirit of love and understanding, or see me as being morally judgemental of your love affair with this married man. It is neither my personal right or purpose here to pass judgement on ANYBODY.

Love, Light and Healing,

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