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Posts: 2 · Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 6:23 pm

Hello everyone,

I do not dream often but last night I had a very strange dream that kind of made me nervous because I couldn’t figure out what any of it meant. So here is my dream..

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It took place in a hotel somewhere nice, There was myself, my roommate, a best friend from another state, and my first love who I still communicate with to this day.

We arrived at the hotel and I began a romantic relationship with my first love, we hit it off everything was incredible after that we left with smiles and joined the rest of the people, once we met up with them we decided to go to a party somewhere in the hotel,

The next thing I knew, I woke up there was my roommate my best friend, and no first love, I panicked, so we went to try to find our room, which we could not figure out where it was, I couldn’t remember a thing from the night before, I kept asking my roommate and friend what happened my friend couldn’t remember either, and my roommate looked at us like we didn’t want to know what happened.

At the end of the dream, I was speaking to my best friend, and asked him repeatedly what happened the night before, and said he wasn’t sure but he thinks he may have hooked up with someone named Jeff (my friend is not gay in real life)

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When I woke up at 5 am this morning the dream felt so real to me, like I still needed to find my first love, everything was so vivid, and clear and it caught me off guard because I have never had a dream quite like this one,

Does anyone out there have any insight as to what this dream may mean ?

Thank you,

OSnapple

Posts: 4130 · Posted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 5:27 am

It is not so much a hotel appearing in your dream that gives it it's generally accepted meaning, but rather it is how well kept it is that mainly decides whether it is to be thought of as being a positive or negative dream symbol.

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A cheap hotel is the epitome of tackiness and indecency, while a nice hotel is the picture of elegance, wealth, and romance. To dream of a hotel usually brings you to one of these two poles of awareness. Either you are hiding-out of guilt or adultery-or you are basking in the power of wealth or romance.
astrology.com/dd/hotels.html

Whatever this hotel room means to your dreaming mind (which is all that really matters in the end), it seems rather overcrowded with the four of you in the same room at the one time (you, your room mate, best friend and first love).

Sounds to me as though your first love could not stand all the competition between the three males staying with her in the room, so she has decided to move on with her own life instead, even though she may have continued to have a relationship with you if your friends had found another room.

I hardly feel that two or three men staying together in a hotel room constitutes the basis for believing that any of you is necessarily gay, as room sharing is often done to also spread the load in paying their sometimes exorbitant accommodation charges.

Now I could be completely wrong about what I am feeling as being the most likely interpretation for this upsetting dream of your's, but I do feel that it could possibly be saying that when it comes to you deciding whether to commit most of your time and energies to forming relationship with members of the opposite sex and spending your leisure time with your male friends, you will probably tend to favour your friends over her.

One common mistake that many couples make is to attempt to get all their needs met by their partner, and drop their friends. I feel that it is important to share whatever you feel that you have in common with a woman, but that you should both continue to have your respective friends outside of your relationship.

Friends can satisfy very different and complementary needs from those which your partner satisfies? Like many other things in life, the secret I feel is in getting the balance right between enjoying close relationships while at the same time having your own respective friends (generally of the same gender as yourself - as this is seen by society to be less suspicious).

Your hotel dream appears to suggest to me that when it comes down to the crunch, you would more frequently tend to favour your male friends over your current girlfriend at the time. Perhaps you need to look towards making the required adjustment to allow both things to happen as they were designed to do?

Hoping I have not confused or offended you, as this was never my intention. My only purpose for responding on this forum is to help members to better understand the most likely messages contained within their dreams.

Your's truly,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 2 · Posted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 8:57 pm

Thanks Eye, i appreciate it, the hotel was 5 star that is definate, and i am not offended, it seems that i got so stuck on teh details of teh first dream i was unable to see the "crowding" which is what pushed her away, and in fact that is what happened the first time when we went differet ways several years ago. last night i had another dream, strange enough...

It was very simple not to much going on, but i met with my first love and i was about to confess the feelings i still have for her, when she beat me to the punch, she said she never stopped loving me and would like to give it a shot again, at this point i started to cry and confessed how i was feeling the same way and i traveled 3000 miles to tell her that.

This could be the truth that i want, and what would truly make me happy in life, but i know for me to move on in any direction i have to have teh conversation with her.

Thanks again Eye, i appreciate all your insight