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carte_blanche
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 3:01 pm |
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i think sub consiously you are still missing your ex bf but you would not wanna admnit the same to yourself and hence the mental struggle.
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eye_of_tiger
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Age: 59 Zodiac: 
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Location: Adelaide, South Australia
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 12:28 am |
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I could not agree more with carte_blanche's comments, than if I had made them myself. There does appear to be a lot of confusion within your dreams as to your true feelings towards your ex even at this late stage. While I do feel that in your mind that you know that it is over and it is time to move on to someone else who is more willing to and capable of giving you the love and respect you so richly deserve, you do still have a problem convincing your troubled heart of this.
You continue to feel deeply about this man, and do not want to admit to anyone how much this is tearing you apart. Looking through the women's drawers could suggest that you are suspicious that although they did not claim to know your boyfriend in person at the time, that you unconsciously believe they were concealing the truth from you, and that all along you had been set up to have your feelings hurt.
You are symbolically looking for their dirty emotional linen as evidence of their betrayal of you as their "friend", possibly to help you to find a valid reason to finally turn your back on him as no longer being worthy of all your terribly confused feelings and ongoing heartache?
If you can somehow prove to yourself that he was never trustworthy of your love, then it makes it that much easier to turn your back on him now, and walk away in the opposite direction as fast as you can. To put the past finally and completely behind you, especially with regard to your relationship with him which is now well and truly over?
Take care,
eye_of_tiger 
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