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Posts: 1547 · Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 8:20 am

Hey there.....

Lately i have been haveing very odd dreams,about sickness and sadness.Sometimes i wake up and cant get back to sleep for a very long time......I only remember two really.The first i was visiting people at their house,i didnt know who they were but i walked into a room and my sister was there.....No one was talking to me and when i asked why everyone was crying,someone had told me my sister had cancer and it was to late to save her,then i started crying,i woke up crying my eyes out....Very short dream but had a huge impact on me,can anyone tell me why or what this dream came about?!

The other one just happened last night....Again i had a dream about cancer,but it was me,i had skin cancer and was dying because i left getting a checkup to late,i was left wondering why me....It then moved on to a house and my grandma,mother and some other being i didnt know was there....Then my gran came over to me and said,i dont want to be here anymore,im ready to go,ready to die,im leaving,im saying goodbye.....So i was crying telling her no,stay with me,i then went into another room,came back where i left my gran.I heard a car leave and asked the other being,where is my grandma,the being said,your mother has taken her to go die,shes left,its to late,in the dream i felt like i didnt get a chance to say bye or i love her......Well i then woke up again crying my heart out and scared shitless,i have no idea why i was scared......

Sorry its SO long,if someone could help tell me what they mean that would be good....

Thanks, Tamara

Posts: 4130 · Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 2:07 am

Hi Tamara,

In the first dream it was your sister who had cancer and it was unfortunately too late to save her. In the second dream you yourself were then placed in the same situation.

In relatively rare cases to dream of a cancer may be a sign of illness of either yourself or alternately some one near and dear to you (although not necessarily from cancer itself), but in many cases it is believed to represent quarrels or major differences you are currently experiencing with those people whom you love (including close family members such as your own sister).

Bad feelings or words which have been said in haste between you (which you now regret but sadly cannot take back) are eating away at your relationship with this person from within, like a rapidly spreading form of cancer. To dream that you or someone whom you love dearly has cancer is frequently believed to symbolise ongoing feelings of hopelessness, grief, self-pity, and your inability or unwillingness to forgive this person for being as imperfect as you are.

Just like cancer, if you allow this to go on for too long before you become fully aware of it, then it will become increasingly difficult to heal the relationship between you and your sister (or with whoever else your dream sister might possibly represent). In order to stop this type of dream in it's tracks, examine your deeper feelings about your own relationship with your sister, and learn to forgive her for some believed personal attack upon you which was never intended in order to bring you closer to each other once again. Dreams of sickness often indicate that there is a real need to find a renewed sense of wholeness or healing within your life in general, and in your case particularly in your relationships with close family members.

When you do find what the source of these bad feelings is most likely to be between you, I sense that it will probably turn out to be something which happened a long time before, and your conscious mind has now conveniently forgot it. It will not in itself be some major bust up between you and your sister, but it will be as if it is a single seed from which many of the misunderstandings between the both of you have grown since then? Just as only one cancerous cell can quickly grow into a life threatening tumour, one small and seemingly insignificant incident can potentially eat away at your relationship from within until it is too late to do anything about it.

God Bless you and your entire family, from me and mine,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 1547 · Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 9:59 am

HI eye_of_tiger

Wow,all of what you wrote makes alot of sense to me....I love my sister but she in the past made me feel un-worthy and not good enough,i still have alot of problems with her.She at times can be selfish and just makes me so mad lol,its always about her and poor her at that,so maybe i do need to get to the bottom of things and forgive,forget and let go.....But alot of what has heppened in the past with alot of people has made me a very shy,unhappy,sad person,so i hope i will be able to put those things to rest!!!!

I dont know if this has anything to do with the dream where my sister had cancer....But i was looking after my mums dog(tamieka) for the past 3yrs and my mum took tamieka to the vet 3 days after that dream and the vet told us tamieka had liver cancer and then 2 days after that she was put to sleep due to being ill and there was nothing that could be done....So maybe my dream was telling me exactly that,because in the end one of my loved ones had cancer?! I love my animals very much,more than people at times......I forgot to put that bit into my first post!!!!

But thanks,you have helped me alot,puts me at ease!!!!

Tamara

Posts: 4130 · Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 6:17 am

Hello again Tamara,

I very much doubt that your dreams had anything to do with Tamieka being diagnosed with liver cancer, and needing to be put to sleep two days later. I believe that it is being used only in a symbolic sense to represent the underlying problems in your own relationship with your sister.

If any of the dreams had been about your beloved pet, I think that would have been made much plainer when compared to the other ones you had. If you think about it for the moment, cancer in one of countless different forms is fairly common amongst both humans and dogs. So are underlying relationship problems between siblings, even if everything appears to be rosy on the surface.

Because they are unfortunately both so common (cancer and relationship problems) your dreaming mind may believe that cancer is a convenient symbol in order to best represent the still mainly unresolved relationship issues you have with your sister? The overall purpose of these dreams is to eventually heal your relationship with her, making it more loving and stronger than ever.

Many blessing to you both,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 1547 · Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 6:47 am

eye_of_tiger

Ahhh yes,i understand now.Things on the inside are eating me up like cancer and if i keep letting those feelings go,well it wont be good....I hope i can sort stuff out etc,but we'll see,i will try my best!!!! I do believe the dream had nothing to do with tamieka,but i guess her death made me think,i sort of blame myself and yeah,long story,oh well!!!!

I Thank-you again for your help

Tamara :o)