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Posts: 49 · Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 11:54 am

Hi I had a strange dream about my boyfriend last night. I saw piles of new sports t-shirts and underwear on a chair, with an old lady nearby, and he was in the background.She didnt say anything, she just looked at me. My boyfriend is a lot older than I am, and I wondered if this may have meant anything. (PS do you think he has someone else on his mind..just a thought). Thank you

Posts: 4130 · Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 1:54 am

Underwear does suggest that you do need to see your boyfriend for the person he really is, rather than simply accepting what appears on the surface as the whole story. While some people could interpret this to possibly mean that he has something which he is hiding from you, there is I feel no suggestion at least within this particular dream that he is removing his underwear in some other woman's bedroom, either in his fantasies or in real life.

The old lady most likely represents your own inner wisdom or intuition, and she is asking you to listen more to what your heart tells you about your boyfriend than what he is openly admitting. It is not I believe that he has either been unfaithful to you in either his thoughts or actions, but there are I sense things he is still keeping from you about himself that he is not particularly proud of doing, even though if he would only come right out and tell you he would soon discover that it is nowhere near being such a serious problem to your ongoing relationship as he is making it out to be in his own mind.

Sport shirts suggest to me that he is experiencing competing or conflicting thoughts about whether or not he will tell you about what he has been concealing from you, but it has more to do with aspects of his personality that he has so far been unwilling to accept, instead of it having anything to do with him developing cold feet with regards to your relationship. There is nothing dark or sinister here which should be misinterpreted as a sign that he has another woman. He is keeping these things from you mainly because he loves you too much to want to unnecessarily burden you with what he regards as being his problems alone.

Your intuition has been given to you to see beyond what is obvious, and is challenging you not to become even more insecure about the difference between your ages, while helping your boyfriend to see that you will continue to love him no matter what relatively minor faults he has. If you had both waited until you were each perfect (in your own terms), the relationship would never have got off the ground in the first place!

Be there for him without judging him prematurely, and allow him to talk about these things when he feels it is safe to do so. He appears to have a major issue with learning to trust others (including yourself), and I feel that your dreaming mind could be picking up on this, rather than it meaning that he is being in any way unfaithful to you.

Hoping these insights have been of some comfort and help to you in better understanding the possible messages contained within this dream.

Cheers,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 49 · Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 1:21 pm

Thank you Eye of Tiger for that great insight into my dream. Wow - so accurate, and you picked up on he seemed to be hiding something from me, which causes us a lot of problems within our relationship. I will take your excellent advice. Thank you for taking the time to do that for me. x
ps apologise if my reply comes out in duplicate, I have found the problem, its my mouse, as when I post replies from work they come out ok..x

Posts: 49 · Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 1:22 pm

Thank you Eye of Tiger for that great insight into my dream. Wow - so accurate, and you picked up on he seemed to be hiding something from me, which causes us a lot of problems within our relationship. I will take your excellent advice. Thank you for taking the time to do that for me. x
ps apologise if my reply comes out in duplicate, I have found the problem, its my mouse, as when I post replies from work they come out ok..x