I keep having a dream where I'm struggleing and trying to fight another person. But I am to weak to do anything..

The person and the envourment is always different, but that hopeless struggle is there.

Hi nug,

There are quite a few reasons you may be having these dreams, but the theme of the repeated dream is basically the same. In all dreams you have 'struggle,' it may never be with the same person and for the most part you are too weak to fight back and defend yourself. The age you post may not necessarily be the age you are, but if you are indeed 14 or around that age most people in their adolescent years are growing into their own skin, trying to find themselves, their identity, trying to expand their independence, the politicking of our peers and the politicking of the adult world can get very tedious and make you feel downright torn. In those years, we all go through several stages morphing from one to another until we figure out and become who we are. Unfortunately it's necessary, aka 'growing pains' we all experience and with all that we are going through at that time, in addition to the changes happening to our body, including hormonal changes which set a lot of this off will lead us to feel everything is a struggle, there are too many challenges and you feel helpless at times because...it's something we need to get passed and it is necessary to help us grow to prepare us for the next stage of our life. It doesn't happen over night.

If you are an adult and dreaming this, then I would say you feel you are struggling with something and feel helpless about a particular situation or even several situations appear beyond your control in your waking hours.

Hope this was helpful and don't worry so much... ;)

Angelique

I am 14, and I think you're right. I feel much better now I can make sense of them. Thankyou!

Hey, no problem  Mine lasted until I was 17... then when I hit 18 I became a know-it-all. Now that's a fun stage and annoying to others.... you'll get past that one too!  

Good news Angelique!

When I got back from holiday, I got the dream again, and I was struggling to get up, but I could get up the the thing I was struggling againgst desapaired and I woke up!

Since then I've stopped having nightmares in general