This is unrelated to your post but this is the second time I have read your post and both times I see the number 14, but there is no #14 to be found - unless I am over looking it. Is this of any significance to you because it irks me that I've seen it twice but it isn't there.
Now, on to your dream... For some children it is quite normal to have recurring nightmares with the same undertones. You were in a car with a stranger, you weren't afraid of crashing when the driver disappeared but you were afraid of being lost, trapped, and alone. Most children are afraid of mom and dad not being there, being lost, being alone and not knowing what to do. I had similar dreams when I was little. It's quite normal. Your fear of vehicles came from the dreams and for no other reason. I hope you have overcome that now.
