I dream of my deceased relatives all the time.  I always believed that the reason for dreaming of them are that they still are around me and my family.  It gives me a feeling of comfort.  Just think of your parents as your guardian angels.  They love you dearly and want to be a part of your life.

Brightest Blessings,

Gypsy

Evie, thanks for taking the time to respond to me.
your post really means a lot. Thank you for your kindness and sympathy.
It really does hurt.  On top of it, my in-laws (some of his brothers, and one sister in law) have very much hurt me, being purposely hurtful.. friends of mine (or so I thought) for a long time. 15 years, for most of them.  It really hurts feeling like I've been betrayed by and lost my family as well as feeling like my soul has been ripped apart with his leaving.

It's still unfinished and still makes me sick, and I just miss him so much. At least his mother and one brother are still acting with love.

Today is another holiday.. which always makes me miss him more, if that's even possible. I guess I have an easier time remembering specific things we did.

It's comforting that you were directed here and read my post.. being someone who has been through something similar. And your dreams must have made it so much worse.  I am really sorry for your loss, too. I'm sure it wasn't easy. :(  Especially being so sudden and unexpected.   I just wish I could hear him. I wish I had control over when I could see him in my dreams or talk to him.

I doubt there is "marriage" as we know it there either, but I don't want him to prefer another person over me. Or what if he is somewhere there but I'm not able to find him.. I have so many fears and worries about that.

I just wish I could hear him better.

Of finding love again, yeah, maybe. nothing like this, I don't think, but that's expected, so I'm sure no one would believe it hearing it.
I don't think most people have EVER had as intimate relationship as we had/have?..  One of his aunts, who didn't like me much from what I can tell, said I am young and will get over it. She doesn't think it's such a big thing. I am angry about that.  She has no idea. And maybe it was just careless, but it really seemed literally unlovingly careless. But she had no idea what we had, and she's an unhappy person.

We only had seven years. It seems like the blink of an eye, and at the same time a very long time. But not long enough, not nearly.
Nothing will make me happier (except knowing the people I care for are going to be with God also), than to finally be where he is and hopefully be allowed to always be with him there.

Thanks for listening...  I just wanted to come back and say thank you for your thoughts and love.

Evangeline

I was trying to recall who all I've seen in my dreams.. My mom, my dad, my great aunt, who was pretty close to me, being that I saw her once a week most of my life, my husband of course, ........ I honestly have known so many people who have died ... but I haven't seen that many of them in my dreams.. I must have had dreams I can't remember but for now these are the only people I remember seeing in my dreams.

I was just thinking on whether it helps more when they are closer to you.  I am guessing it does, although I know a lot of people see or dream of people who they didn't necessarily even know, like great grandparents, or ..complete strangers.  Would you think that those people are just more sensitive?

I wonder what determines who can get through to you---   why does it help (if it does) if they are closer to you?

It seems someone who is just determined might get through just as well.
Maybe they just have a better ability..


evangeline

Having family member who pass on visited me in  my   dream is a blessing because  i know they are  happy  in heaven and they take the time to see  you  , saying that they are all right and are very happy  ....   Heck even my dead pet cat visited me in my dream she died  4 years ago .