For the past few nights, I've been having several strange dreams. Dreams of people getting murdered, my boyfriend's nephew being a toy, trees talking to me, and me being with exboyfriends again.

Now, these exboyfriends that I keep dreaming of, I can't stand. I mean, they are the men that made my life hell. I had a dream of one last night that I haven't spoken to for four or five years. We were together.. And he was being nice to me. And I remember caring about him.. But when I awoke, I remember how he used to torture me so bad in high school that I never wanted to go. He would throw stuff at me in the halls, call me names, started rumors about me being a witch and casting spells on people.. He would always say to me "Oh, I'd better watch what I say or you'll put a hex on me!" And it hurt my feelings so bad.. I wasn't a witch, let alone evil in any way, and I hated people thinking that about me.. So why am I dreaming of a man I dislike?

And another exboyfriend.. Biggest mistake of my life. He would yell at me, control me, do inappropriate things that he deserves to be in jail for to me, beat his children, do drugs.. It was awful how bad he was and how hypnotized I was by him not to leave.. Yet, I keep having dreams that I love him. That I care about him. That I'm with him. I don't understand.. Because, if I could go back in history right now to when we were together.. I would probably put him in jail for some of the things he did.. So why do I dream of him?

I can understand dreaming of ex's.. But why the ex's that were so awful to me? And the ones that I don't talk to? Why aren't there dreams about my ex's that I'm still friends with? I just don't get it.. Any insite would be wonderful. Thank you for reading.


Love & Light

The males in your dreams all represent aspects of your own mind and can reflect thoughts that pertain to these men. The point that seems obvious in your dreams, is that the way you would see these men behaving towards you in real life is not reflected in the dreams.  So right off, this can tell us that how you are thinking about these men does not reflect the reality seen by the Lord. Your thinking is unrealistic where it pertains to these relationships.

As you say both of these men made your life hell. They were not good to you or thus you might see them as  “ not good for you”.  Yet the dreams seem to be showing that these men are being nice or good to you to the point where you could even love them and thus could be regarded as being good for you.  While this might sound a little crazy, the explanation seems to lie in your comment:  “ if I could go back in history right now to when we were together.. I would probably put him in jail for some of the things he did”.  We all draw to us the people or events that reflect our current mental attitude. Your experiences with these men seem to have helped you to develop a stronger sense of Self. You are no longer the same kind of person you were back then – and for this you probably have these men to thank. Because of your experiences you no longer think about yourself the same way. The result is that you will be unlikely to encounter this type of relationship again.

Your dreams could well be suggesting that it is time to put these men into a different perspective, one that focuses more on what you have gained from the experience in a bad relationship. If you are thinking that you wasted your time with these men and that they did you nothing but harm, this way of thinking may not be the reality.