before i start about what the dream was about you will need a little backround info.

my mother was always a heavy drug user and at the age of six she left me home alone for three days. on the third day my grandmother came over and found me and ive been living with her ever since.
six months ago i found out my ex girlfriend who i was with for three years had cheated on me with many people during the duration of our relationship. the day i found out i was very depressed so i had taken a full bottle of percosets, passed out and woke up in the hospital. i had overdosed and nearly died. i havent talked to my ex ever since.

 now to the dream.
last night i had a dream that someone was knocking on my door. when i went to the door i seen my ex and my mother talking to each other and laughing. i opened the door to let them in but i didnt say anything to them and just walked back in my room and waited for them to leave. i hung out by my door and i could hear my mom and my ex talking and laughing to everyone else who lived in the house and basicly having a good time. fed up with what i was seeing i walked in the room grabbed my exgirlfriend by her arm and pulled her in my room and asked her what the hell was she doing in my house and told her to get out. she had told my that we wernt together anymore and that she could do whatever she wanted and she was going to stay.
p.s
i havent seen my mother in years and i havent seen my ex in about six months and they have never met each other. i dispise the both of them for what they have done and i really wouldnt care if i ever see either of them again in my life. but the dream felt so real and it really bothered me seeing them together like that having such a good time.

can someone interprit the dream for me. its been really bothering me since ive had it.

 Hi, there.

The house in your dream represents your mind, it's "where you live". I think what is happening in your dream is that you are tackling the negative presence/influences of these two people, not in your present circumstances, but in your "mind", as part of the total of this life's experiences. It is part of dealing with what happened to you, trying to make sense of it, then "throwing them out", as it were.

It is not unnatural for you to be angry with these two, as they both let you down appallingly. Anger in this way is for our protection, as it makes it clear that the behaviour you received was not deserved by you - it was not brought about by you.

The fact that they were chatting happily with each other represents your concern that they were themselves untouched by the behaviour from them that brought such emotional damage and suffering to you. (But whether or not it is clear to you, this is not the case.)

In order to "let go" of these two, you need to recognise that what happened was not about you or because of you; it was because of themselves. Who did wrong in these situations? They did, because of their own lack. Not you.

Your challenge in this life situation is to "throw off" these negative experiences, and go on to be a trustworthy, loyal and kind person yourself, who would never treat others the way you were treated yourself.

I think you would benefit from releasing the negative energies you have acquired from these experiences, and a technique is outlined in a thread under the General Discussion forum (How to release negative energies). Perhaps the dream is indicating your readiness for this.

Love & best wishes,
Tish

I thoroughly agree with everything Tish has said here and could not say it any better myself

wow that really helped alot i would of never thought of that way, thanks. that was really touching

You are very welcome, Remy, and I'm glad it helped.  Also, thank you for the compliment and reinforcement, Reichild!

Best wishes to both of you!