My dream :  

I was in this house with this man and he was chasing me around the house trying to rape me and he finally caught me.  He was laying ontop of me and i saw his penis.  On his penis there were spikes that were surely going to rip me apart.  I saw that and i paniced and got away.  I ran out of the house and flagged down some other guy in a truck but as soon as i got in the truck i got this feeling that i was going right back to the house ... just like a terrible twist at the end of a horror movie and thats when i woke up crying because it bothered me so much.


I have never had a dream soo horrible.  Can anyone help me figure out what it means?

 Hi, there!

I think the dream is you expressing to yourself that men can be dangerous to you, both in terms of physical strength and sexual aggressiveness. You feel vulnerable. And you are saying to yourself: "How do I know which ones I should be afraid of?"

Perhaps something has recently happened in which you registered this? Either by a man exerting some kind of power over you, or being in a situation where your vulnerability was obvious (such as having to make your way home alone after dark). Or perhaps it is simply the age you have reached.

Hope this helps.

It helps alot, but you see ive never had sex before.  Just because of the fact that im afraid of EVERYTHING that could happen due to it.  So yes,  I appreciate your input.  Thanks!

blinkglue, I know I haven't had sex either & I know that I am a guy, but take this from me. I belive in to points when it comes to sex.

First of all, Sex is a Sacred thing, it is a way of mating with someone, physically, emotionally, spiritually & even at the soul level.

Second, Biologically (My major was Biology in 12th Grade, the only imp subject I passed) Sex is for reproduction, every animal, & fish & reptile & bird & even humans do it for reproduction, even plants do (indirectly).

So Sex is not soemthing to be afriad of, just remember that Sex is not the be all & end all of life, & not having done it is not a crime or a shameful thing. & if someone doesn't want to have it, u should always repect that persons decision. I will be 23 in Jan & a guy & still a "Virgin", I am not embarresed or anything, rather I am proud of my decision. So should u too.

I am no psychic, but I sense some hesitation, (kinda goosebumps) from u when the topic of sex is brought up. (Do u have a boyfriend, who wants to have you-know-what with u? becuase if he does & u don't want to then u must tell him that u don't want to, & if he disagrees then just dump him, he is not fit for u). Until & unless u feel that Sex is not something very important & u must feel comfortable talking about it & u must realise that u will have it when u want to & not before it.

If u do that, u have some more confidence, some more Self-Respect & Respect from others too, & even u will be free from this fear & this dreams (Nightmares). But then again this is me, u are free to shoot down what I have said if it is irrelavent for u & thing "This guy is nuts" & forget it there.

Then again, it was my decision to hold off from it till I meet the right person (The one to whom I belong, the one I am here for) & marry her. So it is your personal choice to decide about it & to stop fearing it.

I stopped fearing that word a long time ago, & rather joke about it. Sometimes I am rather embarresed to say anything about that topic near my parents but I don't fear it any more.