No disrespect to the sag but is it me or are sag men complete jerks, and for some odd reason  wwhy are aries attracted to them I know we are both fire signs but dam* they are so full of themselves its not funny. And another thing are they all dogs if anyone feels the same let me know or is it that i just pick the wrong men?

dont know but Aries & Sagg dont know what drags each other

Well that's a huge 'sweeping statement' here, to discuss western astrology you need to post in correct forum ie: western astrollogy

Aries and Sagittarius are similar not just because they are fire signs but also they need lots of freedom and independence within relatinships along with Aquarius to. If you want a reading you need to post both natals and synastry bi wheel in the Western Reading forum.

synastry and chart comparisons is a complex business and trust me there is much much more to astrology than just 'sun signs'

Basic astrology
Now basically your sun sign is your 'core beliefs, values, ego' and Asc is your physical body, mode of expression and mask and persona that we all wear and hide behind, but definitely not what's going on underneath. What's going on underneath is your Sun sign. Moon sign, house placements and aspects describe your emotional and intuitive responses, also describes your view of your mother, as saturn describes your father by sign and house position.

So, think of a glass milk bottle the bottle is your Asc and your sun the milk, but the milk still has to 'come out' through the glass neck of the milk bottle....

Now aspects within a natal chart represent 'facets' of our personality, because we are all multifaceted beings. What these do is 'break down and compartmentalise' these facets into smaller bite size chunks. This does take quite a lot of self analysis and objectivity to 'see yourself' and why you do certain things and behave in certain ways. Actually it can be quite good therapy...

Remember back to your school days an opposition is 180', square 90', trine 120', and sextile 60' Now challenged aspects are conj (depending on the planets, cos some like each other and some really don't) squares and oppositions. Easy aspects are conj (if the planets get along) eg: Jupiter conj Moon, sextile and trine. Quincunx is inbetween (depending on the planets) causes health strains and unresolved or hard to balance planets/energies.

You may have run across a Sag with a number of "ill placed" planets and such
Is not good logic to take one example and use it as the template for all.

Leos can be just as bad, ya know. ANd Aries as well. Heck ALL men can be jerks at one time or another.
Been accused of it myself and I am the nicest fella I know! LOL

Sagittarius men (or women) prefer a lot of freedom. Maybe that rubs you the wrong way. Try a Leo, they are more loyal. Sagittarius' are very self-righteous and freedom loving/adventure seeking... you as an Aries probably want the challenge of "capturing" your desired object, which may be why you are attracted to the non-committing Sagittarius, but at the same time, that bothers you because you cannot fully "capture" him! You as an Aries are also more loyal and intense. The Sagittarius' have a more flexible, carefree attitude which may feel too weak- like I say, not committed enough.