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Anime89
Age: 20 Zodiac: 
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Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:16 am |
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If there's anything Aquarians dislike, it is probably facing their real selves. I notice that a lot of Aquas are always saying that they like being original, yet their originality is usually kinda...forced. Also, for such an unconventional sign they tend to be really dogmatic in their views; not good at change or adjustment AT ALL, unless change as in helping them keep up the appearance of being progressive, etc. A TRUE visionary should be able to incorporate many views and understand other sides and other peoples' opinions. But not Aquas.
Respecting others is a huge issue. You guys tend to trample other peoples' emotions. Someone said they like being catered to; that's a real biggie with this sign. Though Aquarians will run / avoid you / pretend not to know you when it suits them, they expect you to be passionate about all their nuances and THEIR ups and downs. But no, not yours. Being there for you would get in the way of their egotistical image of being 'free'.
Also, someone said that they don't like politicians? Uhm hello, we've had more Aquarian presidents than any other. I've noticed that many Aquas cannot follow through on their lofty promises for social change. Sure, you're full of a million ideas on how to change this and progress that, but you guys DETEST implementation. Like all air signs, you tend to skim the surface of things - very flighty. It suits politics well, since that's almost exactly what politicians do. If you want more, most revolutionaries have been earth and fire signs, with a few waters. Earth signs know how to dig their heels in. They are passionate about seeing things to completion and don't run from peoples' emotions or needs. To truly save the world, not jus be a trendy activist, you have to be able to heal people, to stick with people and with causes. Many Aquarians are 'trendy activists'. You guys want to appear progressive cuz it's cool and edgy. But anything else? Uhm..no.
Laslty another thing Aquarians despise is being wrong. For the sign of change, they hold onto their opinions like quicksand to an unfortunate jungle trekker. Like to wear smirks on their faces and attack the other person's expertise, or whatever. But are the last to admit wrongdoing and slower to apologize.
If I hear one more Aquarian proclaiming their urge to save the world or whatever I'm going to puke. I have lived with Aquas and befriended Aquas, and it's this universal, generic banner that really means nothing (I thought you were originals???).
Also, you are supposed to be the sign of intellectual pursuits, but for the most part I see Aquarians choosing one niche area where they feel secure and superior and then digging their heels in for the rest of their lives. The next time you see an Aqua, try to engage them in an area of subject matter in which they arent' a guru.You will get a condescneding attempt to reroute the conversation to where they feel at home. You guys present yourselves as intellectually gifted, but really just want praise and attention for your own pinpoint subject area.
So basically, if you want an original, talk to anyone else in the zodiac; being orignal is all about exploring yourself, not pimping some premade astrology description.
And if you want someone to champion your cause to the end, please pick an earth sign; these guys will plow away quietly, even when there's no flash and pomp and there's no noteriety for being a crusader (something Aquas WILL need to stick with you; they only champion hot button stuff).
Lastly, if you want scholarly pursuits, try a Scorpio or a Sagittarius; these guys delve deep and aren't afraid to appear as the student (versus the Aqua need to be a know it all), when you are trading knowledge with them.
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